Blame bad parenting is often a factor in why children turn to alcohol and drugs
Boys and children who drink alcohol puff, marijuana or sniffing glue on the age-old quest for high repetition. In his case, but it is more likely to escape the bad debt to their parents or to escape the boredom of school. It often begins with having introduced the so-called friends, but then escape from a boring or easy conscience. In this article I will address why children suffer from their parents and what parents can do to avoid the mistakes that havecan bring their children to annoy them.
Children are often angry with their parents, especially if the parents were impatient, accusatory, or were not there for them. In search of love and support, they turn to their peer group. It will soon be drinking or smoking to hate the guilt of their parents and Copping out to peer pressure to escape.
Other children, like those of the school are often too ambitious, given the pressure of guilt, Copping out, the pressurestudy, and something (other than the good Lord had in mind for them).
Here is a subtle but important point that is rarely mentioned. None of us wants to start the life of a groupie, a member of the band, smoking pot or be ambitious "want to be." I felt that he or she was finished, the young to a deep level that his parents were stronger and wiser he was white, will be their virtue and understanding of a powerful defense of secular pressure and may have beenprotected them from losing their innocence. This is the deepest cause of resentment towards their parents, and especially against the father.
With all the peer groups, gangs, drugs, sex, school pressure and pop culture - life is a pressure cooker. When parents leave their children at the bottom of the pop culture, school and peer pressure, it is simply too much for children.
Sooner or later the pressure will come to them, and make the mistake is understandable but unfortunate and ill printthat after a deep resentment at their parents for their lack of wisdom, vigilance, moral strength and care.
To make matters worse, when they go home to their parents under pressure! Resentment is guilty. To find something to take away the consciousness of guilt, and that alcohol or drugs.
Parents today have the wisdom of Solomon, the patience of Job, and the courage of conviction. Parents must be grounded on a massive scale in order to know what is right, and have the couragestand for what is right. Parents also need patience and understanding. You're smart enough to see the danger of too much socializing, ambition and achievement pressure, inappropriate music and video games, and so on.
Make no mistake about it - parenting today requires that the highest wisdom and reflection. The parent who smokes marijuana or takes drugs does not solve his children to smoke. Parents who are like big kids, you can not teach maturity. In addition, theangry parents teach you not to get angry or put in print.
The end of annoying and hard to provide values (without love and understanding) will not work. This is just another pressure that really attracts children to be angry and rebellious with their parents (parents are very seductive powers of first class).
Parents, sit down and realize your desire for mercy. Making your needs for your understanding. Getting back in touch with what you know in your heart is right.Learn to speak with your children, instead of talking with them. Be there for them. To know the limits, without putting pressure. Learn how to make the points, without anger.
If you do not have the strongest influence in the life of your child, then someone will be different. But for heaven's sake, do not drive a basically good guy to listen to, rather than shouts. Let your influence of love, understanding, kindness and yes, even courage, if necessary. Leave your strength is not angry, but ratherTo make a deep respect and reflection, which is correct. Let There Be Love in everything you do.
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